99 SECRETS GIRLS HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT GUYS

no offense guys.....dont no hw far its true...!...some do sound true to me atlest...!
Warning:- CAN GET BORING....guys r indeed difficult to analyse..!

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke(irritate) the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
**51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed *****cats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying,"Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.*
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance,give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance,ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at u and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

Sleepy Eyes... (For my love)

Sleepy eyes adjust the water...
Anticipating a soft spray...
Enhanced by heated thoughts of...
Conversations recapturing the day...

Waiting for me...
As it waited yesterday...
With one thousand cups of coffee...
To change the course of what cannot be....

Numbness awakens with little splashes...
Warm and caressing when trouble lashes...
Mine eyes shut softly and head tilted slightly...
While soap suds silkens worries not wanted...

Soothing all that is not right...
Five more minutes just- five more minutes...
To forget how weary was the night...
Five more minutes before the day begins again...

If You Are Thinking About Suicide,,, Read It First...

If you are feeling suicidal now, please stop long enough to read this. It will only take about five minutes. I do not want to talk you out of your bad feelings. I am not a therapist or other mental health professional - only someone who knows what it is like to be in pain.
I don't know who you are, or why you are reading this page. I only know that for the moment, you're reading it, and that is good. I can assume that you are here because you are troubled and considering ending your life. If it were possible, I would prefer to be there with you at this moment, to sit with you and talk, face to face and heart to heart. But since that is not possible, we will have to make do with this.
I have known a lot of people who have wanted to kill themselves, so I have some small idea of what you might be feeling. I know that you might not be up to reading a long book, so I am going to keep this short. While we are together here for the next five minutes, I have five simple, practical things I would like to share with you. I won't argue with you about whether you should kill yourself. But I assume that if you are thinking about it, you feel pretty bad.
Well, you're still reading, and that's very good. I'd like to ask you to stay with me for the rest of this page. I hope it means that you're at least a tiny bit unsure, somewhere deep inside, about whether or not you really will end your life. Often people feel that, even in the deepest darkness of despair. Being unsure about dying is okay and normal. The fact that you are still alive at this minute means you are still a little bit unsure. It means that even while you want to die, at the same time some part of you still wants to live. So let's hang on to that, and keep going for a few more minutes.

Start by considering this statement:

"Suicide is not chosen; it happens
when pain exceeds
resources for coping with pain."

That's all it's about. You are not a bad person, or crazy, or weak, or flawed, because you feel suicidal. It doesn't even mean that you really want to die - it only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. If I start piling weights on your shoulders, you will eventually collapse if I add enough weights... no matter how much you want to remain standing. Willpower has nothing to do with it. Of course you would cheer yourself up, if you could.
Don't accept it if someone tells you, "that's not enough to be suicidal about." There are many kinds of pain that may lead to suicide. Whether or not the pain is bearable may differ from person to person. What might be bearable to someone else, may not be bearable to you. The point at which the pain becomes unbearable depends on what kinds of coping resources you have. Individuals vary greatly in their capacity to withstand pain.
When pain exceeds pain-coping resources, suicidal feelings are the result. Suicide is neither wrong nor right; it is not a defect of character; it is morally neutral. It is simply an imbalance of pain versus coping resources.

You can survive suicidal feelings if you do either of two things:
(a) Find a way to reduce your pain;
(b) Find a way to increase your coping resources.
Both are possible.

Now I want to tell you five things to think about.

1. You need to hear that people do get through this -- even people who feel as badly as you are feeling now. Statistically, there is a very good chance that you are going to live. I hope that this information gives you some sense of hope.

2. Give yourself some distance. Say to yourself, "I will wait 24 hours before I do anything." Or a week. Remember that feelings and actions are two different things - just because you feel like killing yourself, doesn't mean that you have to actually do it right this minute. Put some distance between your suicidal feelings and suicidal action. Even if it's just 24 hours. You have already done it for 5 minutes, just by reading this page. You can do it for another 5 minutes by continuing to read this page. Keep going, and realize that while you still feel suicidal, you are not, at this moment, acting on it. That is very encouraging to me, and I hope it is to you.

 3. People often turn to suicide because they are seeking relief from pain. Remember that relief is a feeling. And you have to be alive to feel it. You will not feel the relief you so desperately seek, if you are dead.

4. Some people will react badly to your suicidal feelings, either because they are frightened, or angry; they may actually increase your pain instead of helping you, despite their intentions, by saying or doing thoughtless things. You have to understand that their bad reactions are about their fears, not about you.

5. Suicidal feelings are, in and of themselves, traumatic. After they subside, you need to continue caring for yourself. Therapy is a really good idea. So are the various self-help groups available both in your community and on the Internet.

Well, it's been a few minutes and you're still with me. I'm really glad.

Since you have made it this far, you deserve a reward. I think you should reward yourself by giving yourself a gift. The gift you will give yourself is a coping resource. Remember, back up near the top of the page, I said that the idea is to make sure you have more coping resources than you have pain. So let’s give you another coping resource, or two, or ten...! until they outnumber your sources of pain.

Now, while this page may have given you some small relief, the best coping resource we can give you is another human being to talk with. If you find someone who wants to listen, and tell them how you are feeling and how you got to this point, you will have increased your coping resources by one. Hopefully the first person you choose won't be the last. There are a lot of people out there who really want to hear from you. It's time to start looking around for one of them.

Now: I'd like you to call someone.

Zaroori to nahi...

Tum Ko Bhi Hum Se Itni Mohabbat Ho Jitni Humein Tum Se Zaroori To Nahi...

Ek Si Dono Ki Haalat Ho Zaroori To Nahi...

Dil Ki Chahat To Kai Khwaab Jagaa Deti Hai...

Jo Mere Khwaab Hon Woh Tere Bhi Hon Zaroori To Nahi...

Jo Tere Khwaab Hon Woh Mere Bhi Hon Zaroori To Nahi..

Haan Magar Saath Mein Kismat Ho Zaroori To Nahi...

Meri Tanhaaiyaan Karti Hain Jinhein Yaad Sada...

Un Ko Bhi Meri Zaroorat Ho Zaroori To Nahi...

Muskurane Se Bhi Hota Hai Bayaan Gham-E-Dil...

Hum Ko Bhi Rone Ki Aadat Ho Zaroori Tu Nahi...!!!

Kitni

Tumse Kitni Mohabbat Hai Ye Me Bata Nahi Sakta,
Apni Zindagi Me Tumhari Ehmiyat Jata Nahi Sakta...
Meri Zindagi Ka Har Lamha Tumhi Se Shuru Hota Hai,
Tumse Door Reh Ke Ek Pal Bhi Akele Bita Nahi Sakta...

Mumkin Hai Main Khud Ko Bhool Jaun Par,
Tujhe Bhoolne Ki Khata May Kar Nahi Sakta...
Tum Mere Dil Me Hi Nahi Mere Rom-Rom Me Base Ho,
Tumse Bichhad Ke Main Ye Zindagi Jee Nahi Sakta...

Yekeen Nahi Hota Ki Tum Chahte Nahi Humein,
Apne Dard Ko Apni Zubaan Se Bayaan Kar Nahi Sakta...
Aaj Vaada Hai Mere Dil Se Ae Mere Sanam,
Tumhare Siva Me Kisi Aur Ko Chah Nahi Sakta...

Tum Zindagi Ho Meri Tumhare Bina Mera Dil Dhadak Nahi Sakta,
Saath Tumhare Mein Hamesha Rahuga Itna Samajh Lo,
Jo Tum Saath Nahi To Ye Ashi Bhi Jee Nahi Sakta...

Kabhi...

Koi aansu mere daman pe gira kar to dekho,
Main patthar nahi hoon mujhe chhu kar to dekho...

Tere kadmon ki aahat se dhadakta hai dil,
Main zinda hoon kabhi mujhe hila kar to dekho...

Phool banke bichh jaunga tumhari raahon mein,
Ek baar mujhe seene se laga kar to dekho...

Bhool jaoge tum dunia bhar ki ronakon ko,
Kabhi mere soone ghar main aa kar to dekho...

Mehak uthogi tum gulab ki tarah dekhna,
Kisi roz mujhe apne tan se laga kar to dekho...

Ho jaogi tum komal se paawan or nirmal,
Kabhi mere aasuon main naha kar to dekho...

Door kar doonga main andhere teri zindagi ke,
Diye ki tarah kabhi mujhe jala kar to dekho...

Ham ko di hai jo tune pyar bhari dunia,
Kabhi fursat mile to us mein aa kar to dekho...!!!

Ek Chehra...

Ek chehra jo mere khwaab sajaa deta hai,
Mujh ko mere hi khayaalon mein sadaa deta hai...


Wo mera kaun hai maloom nahi hai lekin,
Jab bhi milta hai to pehlu mein jagaa deta hai...


Main jo toot ke bikhroon to wahi mujh ko,
Chhune ke liye haath badhaa deta hai...


Main jo tanhaa kabhi chupke se bhi rona chaahun,
To Dil ke darwaaze ki zanjeer hila deta hai...


Us ki qurbat mein hai kya baat na jaane,
Ek lamhe ke liye sadiyon ko bhula deta hai...!!!
-Ashi

Shikayat Ye Nahi Ke, Wo Naraz Hai Hamse
Muskurane Ka Hak Bhi Cheena, Is Baat Ka Gam Hai

Shikayat Ye Nahi Ke, Dil Pe Mere Zahakam Diya
Karahane Ka Hak Bhi Cheena, Bas Is Baat Ka Gam Hai

Shikayat Ye Nahi Ke, Gairo Se Milte Hai Wo Has Ke
Par Mulakatein Hoti Hai Kabr Pe Meri, Bas Is Baat Ka Gam Hai

Shikayat Ye Nahi Ke, Giraya Hamein Apni Hi Nazron Mein
Zamin Bhi Na Chodi Girne Ko, Bas Is Baat Ka Gam Hai

Ja Mera Dil Todne Wale, Har Khushi Meri Tujhpe Qurban
Maang Lena Zarurat Pe Jaan Bhi,Ke Tere Sadke Pe Hum Hai...

:)

Kuch is qadr kho gaye hum unki nigahon mein...
Jaise samet liya kisi ne apni baahon mein...
Wo the thode khush aur thode nirash...
Kash qaid kar pate unhe apni panahon mein...

Tha koi dard chhupaya unhone apni aankhon mein...
Jaise band ho koi khushbu in hawaaon mein...
Hum chahte to pal me toot ke bikhar jate...
Par chaha hai hamesha unhe apni chaahon mein...

Humein lootna to chaha kai balaaon ne...
Jaise sagar samete lehrein apni gaahon mein...
Gar paana hota to paa lete sara jahan...
Par maanga hmesha unhe hi apni duaaon mein...

-Ashi

Meri maut

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